An End, A Beginning, and A Long Road Home

September 13th, 2009

Yesterday.

Saturday, September 12, 2009. Dies Saturni xii September MMIX.

It started as just another regular day, and ended as a day that would have perhaps the most profound impact possible on my life. It will forever be the day I was reminded that your reality can change in seconds…that what you hold in your hands in this world, is fleeting. It was a day that brought a devastating end.

Yesterday. Yesterday was the day that at age 55, my dad died.

In a heartbeat, his stopped. No prep, no warning, no bargaining.

Today marks the first of what will be a collection of starting points. Today we start the process of figuring out how the world keeps spinning without him. Today we start the waiting game for the magical moment when breathing comes easy. Today we plan for goodbye.

It’s a long road ahead. I intend to pack light.

Please do not adjust your set…again…

September 5th, 2009

No possums, you are not hallucinating. Depending on when you get here, you may well find a few hundred posts missing. A database upgrade snafu went sideways, and the valiant attempt with the restoration utility failed. The result is that yours truly is rebuilding from backup…by hand.

One. Tedious. Entry. By. Tedious. Entry.

Please send beer…

What Yoga Pose Are You?

August 25th, 2009

In light of how taxed and tried I feel right now, this is a healthy reminder of my foundation…


You Are the Bow Pose


You are an open hearted person. You seek connections and make them easily.
You are naturally generous – especially with your love and your time.

You have a knack for thinking up interesting ideas. You are an inventor and a creator.
You approach everything in life with a relaxed attitude. You accept what you can’t change.

What Yoga Pose Are You?

The Five Factor Personality Test

March 8th, 2009

Creepy accurate….


You are Extroverted, Conscientious, Agreeable and Open


Extroversion:

You have medium extroversion.
You’re not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your “down time”.

Conscientiousness:

You have high conscientiousness.
Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life.
Most things in your life are organized and planned well.
But you borderline on being a total perfectionist.

Agreeableness:

You have medium agreeableness.
You’re generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.

Neuroticism:

You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed – making others feel secure.

Openness to experience:

Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You’ll try almost anything interesting, and you’re constantly pushing your own limits.
A great admirer of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything.

The Five Factor Personality Test

The Outfit Test

March 4th, 2009

Your Outfit Says You’re Self-Assured


You are a confident person. You don’t need a certain outfit to feel good about yourself.
You prefer to stay casual. You rather speak for yourself than have your clothes speak for you.

You are energetic and adventurous. You are up for anything, and you love being surprised.
You are often cheerful and optimistic. You approach life with curiosity and an open heart.

Your high end fashion designer match: Chloe

Your must have accessory: A funky red bag

The Outfit Test